How does that work?

It bugs me when I see people who are jerks have stickers and signs that say "Coexist" on them. I'm all for relaxing and accepting everyone, but I find it counter productive when you preach coexistence, but you sit there and put others down or hurt them in some way. I wish movements weren't so trendy. When did euthanization become a fad? Why not wear cotton instead of salads? How can you coexist with others if you're not willing to be nice, or at least cordial? Why is it that we only hear things from extreme feminists, and not those who are moderate? I'm no saint, but I still have my values.